Reactions to being hazed vary. Two people who go through the same experience might
feel quite differently. Some people feel relatively positive about going through hazing
(seeing it as an achievement), some feel mildly annoyed, and others have strong negative
reactions. Reactions depend on the extent of the hazing, individual characteristics,
and past experiences. For people who have been abused in the past, hazing can be re-traumatizing.
Anger, confusion, betrayal, fear, resentment, embarrassment, humiliation, hopelessness,
helplessness, anxiety and depression are all normal reactions to being hazed. Some
individuals have become suicidal.
Physical consequences can include exhaustion, headaches, hangovers, illnesses, injuries,
and scars.
It’s common to believe that things won’t get worse, though they often do. You may
want the hazing to stop, but don’t want to get the group in trouble.
You may want to leave, but fear the consequences or feel like you’ve invested too
much already to walk away.
Self-blame can occur and is fueled by hazers who tell new members that they will let
others down if they leave or tell anyone what is going on.